What can my friends see about me?
Three things: your display name, your @username, and your profile picture if you’ve added one. That is everything a friendship discloses. Your tickets, your Memories, your notes, your voice memos and your moods stay yours alone.
Before you accept, they see less
Somebody who has found you in search, or sent you a request, sees your @username and a circle with the first two letters of it. No display name, no photo. Accepting is what reveals those two. See “How do I accept or decline a friend request?”.
What is never shared
- The date you joined. Lumoria shows it to nobody.
- Your avatar colour. You choose it under Settings → Your account and it appears on your own screens only. Elsewhere your initials are tinted by the app.
- Your email address and your phone number.
- Everything you have made: tickets, Memories, notes, voice memos, moods.
Your profile picture isn’t simply sitting somewhere readable. Lumoria keeps a second copy of it encrypted (scrambled) and hands the key only to people you have accepted as friends. Nobody else can open that copy, and neither can the server.
A shared Memory is the other half of the answer
Far more is visible inside one, and it has nothing to do with friendship. Everyone in a shared Memory sees everything in it: every Moment, every photo and video, every note, and the moods logged against it. Each Moment shows who added it. The invitation says so before anyone joins: “Members see everything in this Memory, including moods.”
Everyone in that Memory also sees your display name, your @username and your role there, including people you have never added as a friend, who were invited by somebody else. Your picture is the one exception: it reaches friends only. To everybody else you appear as coloured initials.
It applies to that Memory and no other. Sharing one never opens the rest of yours. “How do I share a Memory with someone?” and “Who can do what in a shared Memory?” cover what joining one means.
